ARE YOU HAPPY WITH YOURSELF? "ITS THE SOUL" THAT NEEDS A SURGERY


 We all are striving to be a perfect person. Why? We look in the mirror and see all these imperfections but we don’t see all the beauty that is there. We shine the light on the all the bad things and it is a disease. We try to fix our teeth, nose, chin, hair, boobs, waist until we are hurting ourselves. We are trying so hard to look better. We are bulimic, anorexic, popping pills, injections and surgeries, for heaven’s sake we are eating orange juice soaked cotton balls to be skinnier! We have lost our minds.
When you look at your life do you want to be happy? What do you see? Do you see yourself standing over a toilet throwing up, do you see yourself getting plastic surgery, do you see yourself doing these dangerous things to be so-called “pretty”? 
Screw the size 0 jeans, screw the perfect nose, screw getting called “pretty”. Fix what needs to be fixed as Beyonce says …”It’s the soul that needs the surgery”
Take a look at your inner self and stop looking at whats on the outside. Fix your inside. I don’t give a flying shit what anyone else thinks – all that matters is that I am happy with myself! AND that starts by loving yourself.  Love the imperfections because that is what makes you who you are. The mole behind my ear that was quiet large (which I had to get cut off) but I use to hate it and then I started loving it because I saw it as a connection. My grandfather had a big mole right behind the same ear. I have a mole on my temple and my brother has one in the exact same spot so I like it…it feels like a connection..we are the same. So I don’t hate it..It reminds me of my blood line. Things are past down that make you who you are – UNIQUE and BEAUTIFUL. ONE OF A KIND – not a reproduced plastic Barbie doll. 
Take some time to reflect today on how you see yourself. Make sure you are loving yourself and not hating on yourself trying to be something you’re not. Stop trying to be what everyone else thinks you should be YOU the BEST YOU but ALL YOU!!!! Your beautiful perfect self as is!

Comments

sandra chen said…
u are so amazing...Godspeed viv

u uplift me each time i read your blog
patrick G. said…
true so true

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