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President Jonathan pictured with members of the National Peace Committee for 2015 Elections watching the election collation results as they were being announced at the National Collation center in Abuja today.

Election commission declares victory for former military ruler, Muhammadu Buhari, over incumbent Goodluck Jonathan. The 72-year-old Buhari built an early lead in northern state [AP]   Former military ruler Muhammadu Buhari has become the first Nigerian to defeat a sitting president through the ballot box, putting him in charge of Africa's most populous nation and its biggest economy. Al Jazeera's Yvonne Ndege, reporting from the capital Abuja, said Buhari was declared the winner after he gained 2.7 million more votes against his rival, incumbent President Goodluck Jonathan.

APC MEMBERS DANCING AZONTO Photos: Jubilation at APC headquarters in Abuja APC supporters pictured above celebrating at the party's headquarters in Abuja this evening in anticipation of INEC's announcement later today

Presidential election results for Taraba state - PDP wins As announced by Prof K. Mohammed, VC Modibbo Adama University of Tech. Yola, RO for Taraba AA - 962 ACPN - 811 AD - 586 ADC - 320 APA - 1306 APC - 261,326 CPP - 1,033 HOPE - 161 KOWA - 153 NCP - 876 PDP - 310,800 (PDP wins) PPN - 680 UDP - 224 UPP - 439 Total valid votes - 579,677 Rejected votes - 23,039 Total votes cast - 602,716

If you’re not pissing someone off, you probably aren’t doing anything important Meaningful achievements are, perversely, more likely to annoy the world around you. Are you losing weight? “You should be happy with your own body!” Saving children in Africa? “You should save your own country!” Curing cancer? “What took you so long?”

I come home in the morning light My mother says when you gonna live your life right Oh mother dear we're not the fortunate ones And girls they want to have fun Oh girls just want to have fun The phone rings in the middle of the night My father yells what you gonna do with your life Oh daddy dear you know you're still number one But girls they want to have fun Oh girls just want to have That's all they really want Some fun When the working day is done Girls - they want to have fun Oh girls just want to have fun

 Sexuality is diverse, and deeply personal to me . Understanding my sexuality is about the sexual feelings and attractions i feel towards other people, not about who i have sex with. There are different types of sexuality , and it can take time to figure out what fits right with you. For some people sexuality is triggered by their brown new cars, or their bikes, jewelries, family, etc. Intimacy to me relies on safety, patience, mutuality, respect and no secrets. Without healthy self disclosure at the right time, there can be no intimacy. That said my sexual intimacy is with KFF is his LOYALTY. His TRUTH. Loyalty is faithfulness or a devotion to a person , country , group, or cause. Philosophers disagree on what can be an object of loyalty as some argue that loyalty is strictly interpersonal and only other human beings can be the object of loyalty. I am inordinately happy to have such clitoral triggers in my life time each time i see, hear, and understand most, if ...

by riversgain    We all are striving to be a perfect person. Why? We look in the mirror and see all these imperfections but we don’t see all the beauty that is there. We shine the light on the all the bad things and it is a disease. We try to fix our teeth, nose, chin, hair, boobs, waist until we are hurting ourselves. We are trying so hard to look better. We are bulimic, anorexic, popping pills, injections and surgeries, for heaven’s sake we are eating orange juice soaked cotton balls to be skinnier! We have lost our minds. When you look at your life do you want to be happy? What do you see? Do you see yourself standing over a toilet throwing up, do you see yourself getting plastic surgery, do you see yourself doing these dangerous things to be so-called “pretty”?  Screw the size 0 jeans, screw the perfect nose, screw getting called “pretty”. Fix what needs to be fixed as Beyonce says …”It’s the soul that needs the surgery” Take a...

 I am a lover of songs, one thing i didnt learn well was to dance. Only the waist dance i know. "chukkles". There are lots of song to listen to, howbeit you can try any of these carefully selected song, ranging from the 80's, 90's to the present. here are my top 2o. please send me yours i would really love to listen to them. If music be the food of love. Play on. “Am I Wrong” – Nico & Vinz This Norwegian duo became an international success with the release of “Am I Wrong” early in 2014. The lyrics are uplifting and inspiring, with a call to action to think outside of the box and live up to more than the status quo. And if the lyrics inspire you, check out this song’s music video. It was filmed in different parts of Africa, highlighting beautiful images of the countryside as well as dynamic shots of the people who live there, in an effort to combat the negative portrayal of the continent in the news. ''Jesus Walks'' - Kanye West ...

From changing Kim K's wardrope from a jean and jacket diva, to a beyonce - like sexy royalty, and now to this ugly blonde hair colour? What is Kanye West really up to. Does he have a secret crush on Beyonce? Well its up to you to decide. and hey Kanye i gat my eyes on you.

  10 Tips for Helping Your Child Overcome Anger By Heather Gilmore, LLMSW Anger can be an emotion that is difficult for even some adults to manage in healthy ways. Therefore, it is reasonable that many children have a hard time knowing how to handle their anger, as well. As children grow and mature, they learn about how to manage their feelings, how to act when they feel certain emotions, and what emotions are “acceptable” and which ones are not. Many mental health professionals will claim that all emotions are acceptable or that all emotions are okay. This is true; However, it is no fun to live a life filled with negative emotions. When your child’s anger seems more frequent than the average child his age, then you may want to consider being more active in trying to help him manage his anger which includes knowing how to behave when angry as well as not feeling as angry as often. Note th...

  When we are angry, it is hard to think about giving to the needy, much less about forgiving those who are mean to us. But if we can make it through the angry times by listening to the wise person inside our head, by venting or by meditating , we will slowly make it to the place of calmness. Then we will respect ourselves all the more for having had the inner strength to make it out of the turbulence of anger and regret. Getting revenge without getting revenge will take you above ordinary strife, into the land of living the way you want to live. The best revenge is when you no longer care about your enemies and you no longer care whether they care. You are simply wrapped up in the joys of living the way you want to live. It’s only human to want revenge.  But revenge comes with a backlash.  Look what happened to Hamlet when he got revenge against his father the king; it led to a “sea of trouble.”  You can get a sweeter revenge by not getting ...

Although some people shun the idea of sleeping naked all together, it is healthy and it improves one’s quality of life. Listed below are seven reasons to confirm these words of wisdom. 1. Natural pain reliever Clothes restrict blood circulation; hence shedding that artificial skin is good for stimulating the same. It helps in eliminating tension and discomfort from the abdominal viscera nerve region and even relieves waist pain. Those tight elastic bands do little good in sleep and hence should be loosened for a sound comfortable sleep. Medical research has shown that sleeping naked is good for those suffering from insomnia as it has a comforting effect on them. 2. Sebaceous glands stay happy Sleep is not a complete no-activity state, but a lot more than we can imagine. The organs are at work and so to improve their productivity it is important that we don’t put pressure on them by way of clothes. It is said that bare skin absorbs more nutrients than with clothes on. Going...

Matthew 19 we read of God’s intent for marriage and why He allowed this judgment. “They said to Him, ‘Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?’ He said to them, ‘Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery’” (verses 7-9). In the western concept of divorce, though it is not called that, it is polygamy. I call it “progressive polygamy”. One marries one wife but gets rid of her legally before marrying another. The difference is that the women also get a legal chance to become polygamists. They progressively marry other men. In the Bible, the argument is made of Adam and Eve as the foundation of marriage.  However it is true that biblical history records complexities in taking this foundation as ...

I am 30 now but still living with my parents. It is demoralizing. I have never felt fully happy because even as a child I was semi-conscious of the fact that my parents were dealing with heavy things. I feel that I have made a complete botch job of my life. I have generally made poor decisions in most facets of my life. When I was about 19 I decided that I didn't care anymore and I was just going to drink a lot and have a lot of sex. I have always had very low self esteem. I realized around 23 that I wanted a better life and started making attempts at getting that but the booze had hooked me and it took a very long time to give it up. Meanwhile I was searching for someone to love me and take care of me and perhaps save me...with disastrous results. I kind of gave up on that but yet still found myself waking up in bad relationships. I did manage to get a degree but, unfortunately, it was in dance which I don't have any interest in anymore...I despise it in fact. About fo...

I've got an exercise for you. For the next seven days, make a concerted effort to count how many people with whom you come in contact who end your conversation with "I'll call you," or "Let's get coffee!" or "We should connect for a drink!" In two weeks, go back and visit the list you made, and see how many of them followed up on their suggestion. The answer will more than likely be "none." We live in a world where 99% of the people you meet are full of shit. It just is. It's not up for debate, it's not a scientific fact, it just is. I think this is the case for several reasons, but the most logical one is as follows: We all want to be thought of as "The nice guy." Ironically, by doing this, we usually come across as full of shit, as opposed to the nice guy. If we play the nice guy role in the beginning "Call me! Happy to help!" Or "Let's get coffee!" and then never follow up, or cancel ...

ACT I SCENE I. DUKE ORSINO's palace. Enter DUKE ORSINO, CURIO, and other Lords; Musicians attending DUKE ORSINO If music be the food of love, play on; Give me excess of it, that, surfeiting, The appetite may sicken, and so die. That strain again! it had a dying fall: O, it came o'er my ear like the sweet sound, That breathes upon a bank of violets, Stealing and giving odour! Enough; no more: 'Tis not so sweet now as it was before. O spirit of love! how quick and fresh art thou, That, notwithstanding thy capacity Receiveth as the sea, nought enters there, Of what validity and pitch soe'er, But falls into abatement and low price, Even in a minute: so full of shapes is fancy That it alone is high fantastical. CURIO Will you go hunt, my lord? DUKE ORSINO What, Curio? CURIO The hart. DUKE ORSINO Why, so I do, the noblest that I have: O, when mine eyes did see Olivia first, Methought she purged the air of pestilence! That instant was I turn'd ...

A one-night stand can be an emotionally taxing experience for a woman. Few experiences are more disappointing and frustrating to a woman than one night stands with guys that she was actually interested in getting to know and was hoping to have much more than a quick fling.  Meeting an attractive, interesting guy, going out with him, liking him, and ending up sleeping with him to only never hear back from him again after that often feels like an utter waste of time. I hear this kind of story over and over – “We went out. He seemed to be really into me, he was all over me, and we spent an incredible night together after which he told me that he really liked me and that he couldn’t wait to see me again, but I haven’t heard from him since. Why do guys do that? I thought he really liked me as much as I liked him! I did not want it to be a one-night stand.” While I could never tell you how to prevent having such disappointments in the future from one-night stands, I would like to she...

When your funny boyfriend asks you how many sexual partners You've had? Well my general rule is to take the real number, divide it by three, and then subtract five, using the formula .3x-5. Even though you know your man won’t call your parents or even give you a judgey face, but you can’t help but feel embarrassed about your relative promiscuity. #laughingandrunningaway# Men tend not to have this problem, which is evident in the language we typically use to talk about sex. A man scores a lot; he’s a player. A woman sleeps around; she’s a slut. Of course, language is fluid. Men can now be called “sluts” (though usually the qualifier “man” is needed.) Women might say they “scored.” But I really resent that no one, to my knowledge, has ever referred to me as a player. Here’s something I resent even more: I’ve met men with kill counts over twenty who would only marry a woman who’s slept with fewer than five people. (Sorry for the men, cos some of them just married the woman who...

For purposes of this page, we use the term “rape” to mean all crimes of sexual violence, not just those crimes that would qualify as “rape” under the laws of different countries of the world. The exact definition of “rape,” “sexual assault,” “sexual abuse” and similar terms differs by state, country to country. The wording can get confusing, since states often use different words to mean the same thing or use the same words to describe different things.  Please note that this definition is rather graphic, which is inevitable when describing crimes this violent. “Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim." Sexual assault victims may be forced through threats or physical means. In about 8 out of 10 sexual assaults, no weapon is used other than physical force. Anyone may be a victim of sexual assault: women, men or children, straight or gay...