My Husband Left For My Best Friend Who Will Now Be My Kids' Stepmom

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My husband left me about two months ago for my best friend. I just found out that she was the reason he left. She has been just about my only confidante since he left. The first one to show up the day he left and honestly pulling me closer every day. Our sons are also friends.


They are already talking about getting married and living together. My husband and I have three small children, five year old twins and a nine year old. I'm extremely worried about how this relationship might hurt them.

Do you have any suggestions for books or research on how something like this might affect kids? He is a good dad but is completely lost right now and doesn't think it will be that difficult for the kids.
He also suggested that it is my responsibility to be supportive of her to the children after they are introduced to her as his new partner ... I think that's pretty ridiculous given the situation. If we were a year or two out of the divorce and he was entering a healthy relationship with someone who hadn't shown such cruelty to me, I could see his point.

I truly feel this woman has sociopathic tendencies and is not a good person. So while I don't plan to trash her to my kids I also don't intend to pretend that we are friends and that I approve of the situation.
Thanks so much in advance for any thoughts you might be able to share.

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