WHY SUICIDE IS THE BEST OPTION, OF OPTIONS FOR YOU!!!



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If you are feeling suicidal now, please stop long enough to read this. It will only take about five minutes. I do not want to talk you out of your bad feelings. I am not a therapist or other mental health professional - only someone who knows what it is like to be in pain.
I don't know who you are, or why you are reading this page. I only know that for the moment, you're reading it, and that is good.
Suicide is not chosen; it happens when pain exceeds resources for coping with pain.

That's all it's about. You are not a bad person, or crazy, or weak, or flawed, because you feel suicidal. It doesn't even mean that you really want to die - it only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right now. If I start piling weights on your shoulders, you will eventually collapse if I add enough weights... no matter how much you want to remain standing. Willpower has nothing to do with it. Of course you would cheer yourself up, if you could.

Don't accept it if someone tells you, "That's not enough to be suicidal about." There are many kinds of pain that may lead to suicide. Some persons have invested in ''Ponzi Schemes'' that have got them penniless and embarrassed and so cannot deal with the shame, some fell out of the love they gave in with their hearts in tact and are never able to pull back and get a hold of themselves. Some are terminally ill etc, Have you paused for a second to ask yourself 'what if i can survive this pain, this ailment, the fear, this shame and embarrassment? Whether or not the pain is bearable may differ from person to person. What might be bearable to someone else, may not be bearable to you. The point at which the pain becomes unbearable depends on what kinds of coping resources you have. Individuals vary greatly in their capacity to withstand pain.

The reason most people never achieve their dreams is because they simply give up. Life was never meant to be easy – its a constant struggle, with extreme lows and extreme highs. Remember that the times when its most important to persevere are the times that you will be most tested.

I can hear you say I can't make anything better, I'm stupid, I feel that my family would be ALOT better without me. For some other people you probably say  ''I don't want to go out of my house, I'm anti-social.. I pretty much fail at everything I do. I just wish someone else had my life, I'm sure they would do a better job. I'm sorry to bother all of you.. I just don't know what to do. I have gone to a counselor. In my opinion she was very stupid.. I bet you think I'm just saying that because I'm angry or whatever''.


The first thing I expect you to say is if I kill myself all I care about is myself.  But dearies That's not true...You want to kill yourself because you compare your life with or by the status quo of the society.

That you borrowed money from different sources to invest in MMM or any other 'Ponzi' Scheme does not in anyway mean you should kill yourself. The highest that can happen is to be in prison and if you visit the prisons on regular basis you find out its not as hard as you watch on TV.

Your husband or Boyfriend breaks your heart, aha! you can't to be lonely, you depended so much on him and you have no clue how to start. My dear you can, all you need do is to look inside of you, find a way to ease the pain other than death. find a way of increasing your coping resources.  Running to Church, or to God, or just to your spirit can go a long way in helping you achieve these words highlighted above.

“Remember that guy that gave up? Neither does no one else.” You are dead and gone and no one remembers you but for your cowardice...

Do you still think suicide is the best option of all options?

To be continued...Please stay alive.

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